The Best Blow Jobs He's Never Had

There's being great at oral sex...and there's being a flat-out down-there dominatrix. If you're into the latter, try out our expert tips. They're guaranteed to press every bliss button on your man's body, giving him the best blow jobs ever. Ready to be worshipped? 

 

Get Hands-On

While your mouth is definitely your star player, calling in your hands as reinforcements will boost stimulation for your guy and increase your stamina since you're splitting up the work. Focus your mouth on the head while lightly gripping his shaft with both hands, letting them follow as you bob up and down, massaging with your tongue. The pump-and-swirl combo will send him into sensory overload.  

 

Be a Tease

After slowly stripping him, take your tongue and lightly run it around his southern erogenous zones—like his inner thigh or along his V-cuts—touching everywhere but the goods. Your mouth in the neighborhood will be super arousing, and when you finally make your way to the promised land, all of his nerves will be on high alert. Translation: He'll be so revved up, he'll be begging for it.

Under Pressure

Cup one hand around the base of his penis and lightly squeeze, using the other hand to assist your mouth as you stimulate his head and upper-shaft. Your cupping hand will create a pressure that'll direct more blood flow to the head, making his pleasure from your oral handiwork even more magnified.

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How do I give my guy a hand job?

Pleasuring your man manually — whether it's a prelude to penetration or an erotic act in itself — is an incredibly sexy sack skill that's often overlooked. When you and your man are fooling around, have him lie on his back and straddle his thighs. Then, gently rub some water-based lube on his penis. To perform the basic hand job, firmly, but gently, wrap your fingers around his member and move your fist up and down his shaft in a slow,steady motion.

Variety is one of the key ingredients to a moan-worthy hand job, so mix up your speed and pressure as his arousal grows. Don't forget to pay special attention to the super-sensitive corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Periodically massaging them with one or two fingers will make him swoon.You'll also want to try using both hands in tandem -- think of it as doubling his pleasure. To give him an incredibly erotic two-hander, form a ring with your thumb and forefinger at the base of his shaft and gently tug downward, while simultaneously fondling his TLC-craving testicles with your other hand. Another make-his-toes-curl strategy: Handle his member with both hands working in precision, first one hand scaling down his shaft followed directly by the other. Make a gentle twisting motion on the way down, and his head'll spin. Or, wrap both hands around his member and move them in opposite directions as you work your way up and down his shaft. As he nears orgasm, continue stroking his shaft with one hand, while you gently massage his perineum (the nerve-packed stretch of skin between his anus and testicles) with the pointer and middle fingers of your other hand. You'll set him on fire.Since no two guys are alike, you'll have to experiment with different moves to discover exactly what sends your man over the edge. Just ask him what feels good. Or, have him give you a hands-on demo of how he likes to stimulate himself, then follow his lead. Remember, just as important as technique is attitude, so try not to get hung up on "performance anxiety" and have fun. The fact that you're so willing to please your man is as big a turn-on as any hand job.
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Oral Sex Tips;How to Give a Great Blow Job

Think you know all the tricks to operate his joystick? Think again! Here's how to use your tongue, lips, and, yes, even teeth on his prime real estate in ways you’ve never imagined.

Get the lowdown

Don’t get us wrong: Men love all oral sex. If you’re down there, he’s in heaven, period. Still, don’t you want to blow past his expectations and introduce him to levels of bliss far beyond what he dared to dream could exist? Totally doable — just take a tip or two from this flipbook, which will get you using your tongue, lips, and, yes, even teeth on his prime real estate in ways you’ve never imagined (nor has he, which is really saying something). Ladies, prepare to plaster a perma-grin on his face and yours.

Maintain a little eye contact

Believe it or not, men can get a little lonely up there. So, make sure to glance up and hold his gaze every once in awhile. Add a devilish gleam in your eye, and he’ll be in heaven.

Lend a helping hand

Let’s face it, your mouth can only cover so much ground (the average penis is five to six inches, while the average mouth is only two to three inches — you do the math). That’s why the very best oral sex usually incorporates some hands-on action to pick up the slack. So, feel free to mix-and-match the moves in this chapter with those in chapter 11. Or make an O with your hand, place it on your lips, and move them in tandem. This will create the illusion that you’re taking him all in while in reality it’s more like three-fifths. Pretty good

Know the science of suction

Ever wonder why they’re called blow jobs when you’re actually doing the exact opposite — sucking? Anyway, for anyone who can’t quite figure out how to do it, suction is created by placing the back of your tongue on the roof of your mouth then sliding it backward to create a vacuum. Now, we all know suction’s a crucial ingredient to oral sex, but keep in mind, we can only really suck on the first inch and a half. Take in any more, and your tongue must drop to accommodate it, nullifying those Hoover-esque effects. Don’t worry, though — many men find too much suction a turnoff. To find out how much he likes, ask him to suck on your fingers with the intensity he’d like you to use down yonder. Then fine-tune your technique accordingly.

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How To Oral Sex?

No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make it as pleasure filled as possible. But since hardly anyone talks about it, it's tough to get the good, juicy tips you need to make it mind-blowing. Well, at Cosmo we've never been afraid of doing the dirty work for you. So here are the best tricks for giving your guy lip lovin'. Oh, and some for you to pass along to him, so he gives as good as he gets.
"Invisible oral" can boost your pleasure.
A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Sound like you? Try keeping the lights off so you can't see him. You'll have fewer distractions and be able to focus.
There's a gag-proof way to go deep.
Here's a trick that gives him the illusion that you're taking him all the way in: Place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth. Then let his member hit the underside of your tongue.
You should have him at hello.
A Cosmo poll found that 34 percent of guys say they wish a girl would surprise them with oral when they walk in the door. Tell him to text you when he's almost home, then ambush him.
Suction isn't just for hickies.
Many women have complained to our experts that they have a hard time getting off while he's down south because their guy doesn't use enough pressure. Ask him to switch up his moves and try sucking on your clitoris instead—it provides a more intense pressure.

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He doesn't always want to finish.
Many guys don't actually want going down to be the main event. According to a Cosmo poll, 54 percent of men like oral action as foreplay.
His "boys" want to join the party.
Fifty-one percent of men complain that their girlfriends ignore their balls during oral. Try this trick: While your hand strokes his shaft, take one testicle at a time into your mouth and lightly suck.
There's a way he's never been licked.
The meatus—the hole on the tip of his penis—is supersensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It's such a specific place, he probably doesn't even realize it has feel-good potential, so he'll love that you've discovered it.
Lube can taste good.
If you're going to be down there for a while, you may get a case of cotton mouth, which can cause chafing on his penis. Lube can fix that. Lots of companies are making flavored formulas that taste just slightly fruity or minty, not like candy-coated toxic waste. You can buy a sample pack online at babeland.com.
Shakira had the right idea.
Many chicks complain that their guy lacks variation in technique. If you don't want to speak up, physically move your hips, like you're squirming from all the pleasure. It'll give him the hint that he should vary his moves.
If you're into it, he's into it.
One thing that turns guys on is enthusiasm. In fact, lots of them have a hard time fully enjoying themselves because they worry that their partner hates being down there. Let him know you like it by softly moaning as you take him into your mouth.
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How do I have phone sex?

Phone sex is the perfect way to make a carnal connection when you and your man are apart. And while the thought of it may leave you speechless, tantalizing talk isn't as tricky as you think. Just use your erotic imagination. Share your steamy desires, describe details from your favorite fantasy or tell him, step-by-step, what you wish you were doing to him.

Remember, aural sex isn't all talk and no action. Up the erotic ante by simultaneously masturbating. Explain to each other exactly what you're doing ("I'm tracing circles on my inner thigh") and how it's feeling ("I'm getting so wet"). He'll go nuts. Giving good phone is a lot easier -- and more fun -- if you get into a lusty mood before you dial his digits. Lie back and envision a supercharged bedroom scenario with your guy. Start stroking yourself, and when your pulse is pounding, give him a call.

Since this is your first time starting sexy phone speak, you might be a little tongue-tied. But don't feel forced to say something XXX-rated. Just chat with him as you normally would and ease into a more intimate exchange by saying something as simple as "I wish you were lying next to me." Or lift his libido by reminding him of an incredibly hot sack session you had together. You're guaranteed to get a rise out of him.

If you aren't comfortable initiating a kinky conversation, suggest your boyfriend take the lead. Close your eyes and concentrate on every wanton word. As you touch yourself, fantasize that you're feeling his tantalizing fingers caressing your skin. If at first you feel shy, just moan or sigh while he narrates a naughty story. As the encounter escalates, you may be very surprised at the frisky phrases that pop out of your mouth.
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The Octopus Sex Position

Erotic Instructions:

Have your guy sit on the floor with his hands on the ground behind him. Tell him to spread his legs and bend them slightly at the knees. Keeping your hands on the floor for support, straddle his lap, facing him, and raise your legs so your right leg rests on his left shoulder and your left leg on his right shoulder. Do it right and you two will look like a multilimbed lust creature.

Why You'll Love It:

Because your body is tilted upward, your guy enters you in up-and-down motions rather than circular or side-to-side, bringing on deep, direct G-spot orgasms. And you both get a prime bird's-eye view of the action — a male fantasy come true! Plus, if you can master this one, you two will have entered the Kama Sutra Hall of Fame. And what could be hotter than that?

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TIGHT SQUEZZE SEX POSITION

Erotic Instructions:

Lie down on your stomach and, keeping your legs straight, spread them slightly. Rest your arms by your side, or stretch them out in front of you. Have your guy stretch his body over yours, resting on his elbows so he doesn’t place all his weight on you. He then positions his legs outside your legs. As he enters you, close your legs and cross them at the ankles.

Why You'll Love It:

With your legs clenched and your ankles crossed, you can feel the entire length of your man’s member and grip it tight, creating loads of feel-good friction as he thrusts deep. While you’re rocking randily, have him reach under you and play with your breasts, or brush his lips against your neck and nibble on your earlobe. Though this move offers megasensation, there isn’t a lot of motion, so it’s a prime pose for guys hoping to hold off on climaxing.
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